I was reflecting on my honeymoon briefly and realized that my most vivid memory from that week was lying in the ER bed* while N held my hand. It's not a bad memory, just probably--well definitedly, not what I thought I'd…

I am unusually exhausted today, so this will probably be shorter than I had hoped. Proposition 8: Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California. I think that this is a valid policy quest…

I've been sorta sick, but I seem to have reached a moment of clarity so I will use it to update. And this is my prayer for you that your love would abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight... ~Paul, Lette…

"...originally "will" was an entirely normal verb that simply meant 'want to' or 'desire'. ...although hardly a bride or groom realizes it today, the original sense of the promise 'I will' [in the marriage vow of the An…

… we always marry the wrong person. We never know whom we marry; we just think we do. Or even if we first marry the right person, just give it a while and he or she will change. For marriage, being what it is, means we …